It has been so long since I wrote and I am trying to pick up the ...pen again but I haven’t had many deep, life-changing thoughts of late.
However, I have added another bridesmaid HA. And I couldn’t be happier.
My mother visited Wroclaw and Krakow about a month ago and it was her words that made me decide on having Lisa, my very dear wonderful friend, to be in my wedding party.
I previously didn’t add her because I really didn’t think it was ‘appropriate’ to include her. I have no clear idea why. I love her a lot and we have been close since our days of packing stupid shelves in a stupid corner shop...I actually loved that job. But I haven’t been married before and I wasn’t sure the right people to ask. Colin and I decided that 4 was enough and like I previously said I chose the 4 that mean the most to me from different parts of my life. Lisa, I took for granted, I assumed well I knew that she would help me do anything for the big day without getting anything in return.
While my mother was here she asked me why Lisa isn’t going to be a bridesmaid and I had no answer for her. Of course I didn’t because Lisa is perfect to add as my fifth lady!
And so she is added and in her rightful place.
While my mother was here she asked me why Lisa isn’t going to be a bridesmaid and I had no answer for her. Of course I didn’t because Lisa is perfect to add as my fifth lady!
And so she is added and in her rightful place.
The wedding is on the back burner right now as Colin and I arrange our future jaunt back to Korea. I am more excited about our American future and I'm over looking the actual thought of returning to the place I have spent too much time in. But we plan to save a lot of money and have the wedding, honeymoon and life of our dreams. Nothing big or over the top but secure and happy just as we like....with our 2 cats who hate the idea that we are returning to Korea and dragging them along for the ride. Maybe we will get them a dog.
